I have been thinking a lot lately about a phone call that I received after I posted my last blog post. I was asked if I forgave my mom and dad. I'll give you the cliff notes of my last blog. Abuse, murder, alcohol, adultery, etc., etc. If you care, you can read my previous posts. But the question about forgiveness struck a chord in me and it got me thinking. Have I really forgiven my mom and dad?
I can admit that I have struggled with forgiveness whether it has been my parents, past relationships, or even those in position of authority in my life. I talk to God often about my struggles to forgive. There have been also been times when I feel guilty if I allow my memories or emotions to creep up on me. Disclaimer: God is bigger than guilt, fear, and stubbornness. But did you know that the Bible has a lot to say about forgiveness? Matthew 18:21-22, one of my favorite verses, says:
"21Then Peter came up and said to him, “Lord, how often will my brother sin against me, and I forgive him? As many as seven times?” 22Jesus said to him, “I do not say to you seven times, but seventy-seven times."
I am encouraged by this verse because Jesus is telling Peter to forgive at least 490 times! I also understand that it could take more than 490 times, but forgiving is not easy. Let's just go ahead and get that out of the way. I just wanted to share with you that if you have been struggling to forgive, talk to God. Talk to a parent or a trusted friend. Once you learn to forgive then you learn to win in life. Forgiveness is not a sign of weakness, but a sign of obedience and strength. Who do you need to forgive?
In Him,
Jimmy
